SAY, Bye-Bye to TOXIC Thinking!

Did you know that your state of mind depends upon how you perceive or relate to the struggles that are presented to you during your journey called LIFE... Indulge us for a moment or two, while we offer you a healthy dose of Heavenly Solace?

We'd like you to analyze this when you have some free time? Not all news is entirely good or bad, it depends upon where your at: Spiritually, Intellectually, and what kind of influence the company you're keeping has on you. Lets break this down a little more; so it's easier to comprehend? If you're constantly socializing with people that carry a pessimistic mentality where ever they GO; sooner than later you'll fall into that same trap, and Bear Hug that lifestyle too. The BIBLE is so clear cut regarding this, read it and you'll see why?

PROVERBS 27:17

IRON SHARPENS IRON, AND ONE MAN SHARPENS ANOTHER.

Have you ever tried to delete all or some of the subconscious clutter that's rolling around in your mind and clouding your judgement? We have a name for all that unnecessary negative brainwaves; we call them ... Toxic Thoughts; because there the poisonousness thoughts that: mitigate, produce dullness, and finally try to paralyze you: physically, emotionally, and especially Spiritually too. Digging Deeper, it's also the voices of your: peers, family member, and acquaints that are always telling you this, you're going to FAIL; so why try anyway.Todays society is full of individuals that don't understand that JESUS CHRIST: talks, relates, and in due time, enlightens us with the solutions to our Dilemmas. For example:

PHILIPPIANS 4:19

MY GOD WILL SUPPLY EVERY NEED ACCORDING TO HIS RICHES IN GLORY IN CHRIST JESUS.

That's why we shouldn't pay attention to the meaningless Trash that comes out of them mouths of others, instead we should do this:

1 PETER 5:8

BE SOBER, BE VIGILANT; BECAUSE YOUR ADVERSARY THE DEVIL WALKS LIKE A ROARING LION, SEEKING WHOM HE MAY DEVOUR.

CLOSING STATEMENT

Remember this, there are occasions when the HARDEST things in life, can SUDDENLY turn into a Breath of Fresh Air... All in all, don't let anyone RAIN on your Parade and remember this:

PSALM 37:4

DELIGHT YOURSELF ALSO IN THE LORD, AND HE SHALL GIVE YOU THE DESIRES OF YOUR HEART.

BLESSINGS,

Are you SURE about that?

Where did the misconception of NICE GUYS Finish Last come from? Is it the after-effects of all that evasive media propaganda that's been plastered on television for centuries? Or is it the results of watching: mothers, sisters, and friends: getting beat up by abusive boyfriends or husbands, dating the NICE GUY but; when the ex returns with a so called forgiving spirit,

then the NICE GUY gets KICKED to the curb. You're asking

WHY; here is what most battered women say "Because we LOVE them".

Don't you think that it's our obligation as a society to: PRAY, educate, and be better role models for our young people then the past generations were? We say this because so many women tell us that they prefer dating Bad Boys; instead of NICE GUYS because that's what they're: grandmothers, mothers, aunts, and sisters did... In addition to that, they informed us that they're not attracted to NICE GUYS for the following reasons:

1. To NICE
2. Not adventurous enough
3. They focus to much on being realistic and planning for the future.

Beyond a shadow of doubt, there are two sides to every coin. The first lesson is this, people tend to Duplicate what they see as kids, it's difficult to Break certain Cycles; even if there painful ones. The second lesson is this, NICE GUY only Finish Last; because there are ladies of all ages that rather be disrespected by a Bad Boy, instead of being LOVED by a NICE GUY. Who's the one that's honestly lucking out? You decide while you contimplate this?

PROVERBS 15:22

WITHOUT COUNSEL PLANS FALL, BUT WITH MANY ADVISERS THEY SUCCEED.

BLESSINGS,

Rumors, Empty CHATTER

Rumors are conversations that merely: divide, destroy, and attempt to grasp the attention of it's listeners to a degree that their mislead by what is said... The term rumor is also defined as a fabricated story or statement designed to bring harm to the person it's directed to...

Back Fence Talk is an alias for rumor; because its done in a secretive matter so that the person who's being GOSSIPED about isn't aware. It's a waste of: time, energy, and there are those who feel empowered by this empty chatter.

The sources of this idol gossip that are usually: family, friends, ex's, and/or the people, you least expected. Rumors are unfavorable ways to releasing some type of: anger, vengeance, or just jealously that's been stewing for a while; however the word of the LORD says this pertaining to rumors:

PROVERBS 21:15

WHEN JUSTICE IS DONE, IT BRINGS JOY TO THE RIGHTEOUS BUT TERROR TO EVILDOERS.

We've witnessed the way that so many: men, women, and even youth have committed inexplicable acts; because of a senseless RUMOR that was made about them. None the less GOD is on the money regarding how to dealing with RUMORS, read this:

GALATIANS 6:7

DO NOT BE DECEIVED: GOD IS NOT MOCKED, FOR WHAT EVER ONE SOWS, THAT WILL BE ALSO REAP.

BLESSINGS,