It's unsettling and concerning to see how some many COUPLES now a days fall into the TRAP of allowing their obligations of: work, paying the bills, caring for the kids, and grocery shopping to override the Romance Department in their marriage.
This: article, post, and blog is a Wake Up Call for "ALL" those Love Birds to start Chirping again. The word of GOD says this regarding MARRIED:
THEREFORE A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND HIS MOTHER AND BE JOINED TO HIS WIFE, AND THEY SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH.
Alright, before we begin we'll allow "ALL" or some of you get a: pen, pencil, a notebook, and/or a tape record; this way you can Jot down whatever Tickles your Fancy.
WISDOM IS THE PRINCIPAL THING, THEREFORE GET WISDOM, AND IN ALL YOUR GETTING UNDERSTANDING.
Things that you'll need:
- Faith in GOD!
- A good Memory, so that you can reminisce on how each of you: looked, spoke, and felt towards each other.
- Will POWER
Have you forgotten what attracted you to this person? Was it the way your eyes lit up when you saw them? Let's take a Walk down Memory Lane, you know Back in the Day before you met your spouse; Oh Yea, Mr. or Mrs. Right. Relive those days and nights when you told your closet friends this "when I met the LOVE of my LIFE, I'm going to; you fill in the BLANKS...
FLASH BACK TO YOUR FIRST DATE
Find a location with the goal to STIR UP: misplaced feelings, forgotten anniversaries, and bring BOTH of you back on track to a Path of: roses, chocolates, and Love letters.
Put on your Memory caps, sit down, and turn on the television in your head! Do you recall how you thought that the world Stood Still and your Goose Bumps were running Up and Down your skin?
Look into your husband's or wife's eyes and tell us what you see? I'm going to share some of my BLISSFUL feelings when I first looked into My Gem's(husband's) eyes. I saw and still see: the LORD'S continual LOVE, a brighter tomorrow, the man of GOD that makes my Knees Weak, and that ALWAYS Wipes my Tears no matter! The Prince of Peace is on Target with this Bible verse:
HE WHO FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GOOD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOR FROM THE LORD.
Can you: set aside your past issues, listen to each others feedback, try to be Open MINDED toward each others needs, and swallow your PRIDE? If you do these things, then your on the way to REKINDLING the FIRE in your MARRIAGE....
Prior to going to bed at night and waking up in the morning, what kind of emotions are you experiencing? What are you sensing while your mate was/is lying next to you? Think about this when your about to talk with your pillow tonight! If you wake up with a SMILE on your face the next day, then that means your RELIVING your GLORY DAYS.
Take a reality check and be HONEST with your answers, starting right now:
- Do you believe you can forgive your mate?
- Are still in LOVE with your husband or wife?
- Can you feel the Rivers of LOVE racing up and down your spine?
- Surprise your spouse with a Tasty meal.
- Hire a: serious, reliable, and mature baby sitter.
- Turn off "EVERY" phone in the house.
- Finally, "DRESS to IMPRESS" and allow your heart to run FREE....
HUSBANDS, LOVE YOUR WIVES, AS CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH AND GAVE HIMSELF UP FOR HER.
You'll be GLAD you did!