Sunday, July 25, 2010

Don't AIR your Dirty Laundry Outside!

Is it: necessary, correct, or proper for a married couple to TRASH TALK each other in public? Every couple on the FACE of the earth has some kind of struggle to deal with or overcome; however is it WISE to Publicly vent everything that's going on in their married life to every Tom or Mary? You be the judge and tell us what you THINK?

Most couples now a days Air their Dirty Laundry in public due to:
  1. Lack of communication and respect for each other.
  2. A: small, meaningless, and unexpected SPAT occurs and everyone has to hear about it.
  3. Want and need to be Pitted.
Back in the Day, when our parents had their misunderstandings, we never knew about it. My Mother-In-Law always says What goes on between a husband and wife STAYS between a husband and wife. Reason being that the couple makes up and everyone else stays angry and concerned...

Today's couples tend to:
  1. Involve their children in the arguments and force them to choose sides.
  2. Fighting, yelling, and calling the police against each other.
  3. Being unfaithful; so the spouse is made jealous.
  4. Saying that they need some alone time; so that the spouse has to Move Out for a while.
What happens in your marriage should remain between GOD and the BOTH of you; because after everything been said and done, you might get back together and then everybody knows your BUSINESS. What does that accomplish? In our opinion and experience of 22 BLISSFUL years and 2 1/2 AWESOME months, the only time a couple should ALERT the world about is this:
  1. Domestic Violence
  2. If your spouse is sexually or physically ABUSING their son or daughter.
Friendly Advice

Marriage is what BOTH of you INVEST in it so: PRAY, COMMUNICATE, set aside at least 1 day in each week and call it Date Night... It will go a Long way...

1 PETER 4:8

ABOVE ALL, LOVE EACH OTHER DEEPLY, BECAUSE LOVE COVERS OVER A MULTITUDE OF SINS.

BLESSINGS
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Friday, July 23, 2010

Carlos Jr., It's your time NOW...

Carlos Jr.(Diamond #1) has obtained 2 of many milestones that will come his way. One, Happy Birthday(Bebe that means Baby in Spanish) and two, the 1st. of MANY of his books has been published and released... BOTH online and in Barnes and Noble stores(in the 5 boroughs) for the public to PURCHASE... Everything is falling into place for our Raising Author of GOD... This is the book cover and the link; so feel free to BUY out the store... These are the words of Proud Parents... LOL

http://www.publishamerica.net/product95750.html

Taking everything into consideration, our young people are undergoing a great deal of pressure from: peers, society, social trends, and the flesh; because it TOO wants to manifest itself. That's why as Triple P's: Parents, Pals, and Pastors; we're constantly giving the LORD: thanks, PRAISE, and Glory for granting us the opportunity to raise 4 Soldiers of GOD.

What the Supreme Being has bestowed upon us, that's what we TRULY Try to share with our 4 Diamonds in this fashion:

EPHESIANS 6:4

FATHERS, DO NOT PROVOKE YOUR CHILDREN TO ANGER, BUT BRING THEM UP IN THE DISCIPLINE AND INSTRUCTION OF THE LORD.

The BIBLE is based upon repetition; its natural that what you: hear, read, and pronounce numerous times, that's what you'll retain. This is also valid for the: raising, teaching, and guiding of your sons or daughters. If you partake of the 3 D's: discuss, debate, and describe to them(your kids) the: causes, effects, and results of associating with friends/acquaints that have a Criminal Mentality at some point or other they will come around when you least expect it. We're always emphasizing the importance of reading the BIBLE as a daily family activity and during those moments our: Loving, Handsome, and YES, sometimes Opinionated 4 Diamonds(son):

1 CORINTHIANS 15:33

DO NOT BE DECEIVED "BAD COMPANY RUINS GOODS MORALS".

FINAL THOUGHT

Remember this name because JESUS CHRIST is taking this Raising Author places ... for the world to: see, hear, and read about; it's ALL for GODS GLORY... Our Bebe's(which means baby in Spanish) is growing into an AMAZING young man and its due to G.O.D.

Happy Birthday Carlos Jr.(Diamond #1) your GOD Given Gift that started in the third grade has finally become a Reality; ENJOY it...

BLESSINGS
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