Without a doubt, so many couples are experiencing marital disputes and YES, it's expected; but not to the degree that the aftermath is DIVORCE... Perhaps it's due to the: economical crisis, employment downfall, eviction notices in the works, and as a
result, both of you aren't on the same page right NOW; nonetheless, are those ample reasons for you 2 to Give Up on each other?
Are BOTH of you: acting, feeling, and calculating your next step due to the circumstances around you? Have you 2 allowed the situation to cloud or ease what you've ACHIEVED through the GRACE of GOD? Maybe both of you should reflect on this:
DO NOT JUDGE ACCORDING TO APPEARANCE; BUT JUDGE WITH RIGHTEOUS JUDGMENT.
What about ALL those memories you've created in the past? Were the Vows you exchanged on your Wedding Day just for Show and Tell purposes? Come on you 2 LOVE Birds, did you not mean what you said to each other on that Special Day? Or was it just a FAKE display of affection for your guests to witness? Think about ALL of this before each of you GO your separate ways and finally say It's REALLY Over?
Didn't you PRAY to GOD for an ideal mate? Someone to be with you in Good Times and Bad ones too? Have you forgotten what the LORD says in:
AND THE LORD GOD SAID, IT IS NOT GOOD THAT MAN SHOULD BE ALONE, I WILL MAKE A HELPER COMPARABLE TO HIM.
A LOVING SUGGESTION
Talk to each other... Communicate with other... Share with each other a TASTY desert, and let JESUS CHRIST help you rekindle those days full of: LOVE, PATIENCE, and where everything was based on how you 2 were going to CONQUER any and every obstacle TOGETHER...