Squabbling was the way brothers and sisters BONDED; however as time goes by, and we matured, the dynamics of a family should have
changed; for the BETTER. In the event that it hasn't, we'd like to share a few techniques on how to mend siblings relationships.- FORGIVENESS must be embraced in order for siblings to move on. What is dead and buried, forget about it.
- Family FUNCTIONS: Thanksgiving, Weddings, and babies being burned; can't be missed, make an attempt.
- Get off the GOSSIP Train , if someone wants you to take on the part of the family MODE; say NO...
- RESPECT is key if you have a hankering for unity; avoid sensitive topics, such as: weight, finances, or failed relationships; FORGET about it.
- STAMPING a Kin with a particular title, such as: loser, cheap, or the big mouth. Name calling isn't Cool; so STOP it.
- TECHNOLOGY has it's advantages; so use them. You can: text, email, or post a message on social sites: Facebook, MySpace, etc. That's a sweet gesture and shows you truly care.
- JEALOUSY and devaluing your siblings is a sure FIRE way to produce division; so when it comes to family group HUGS or KISSES, show some sincere LOVE, and NO elbowing each other.
- If you don't get alone with your kins spouse, try to find some mutual ground with their mate anyway.
- VACATION Time should and could be the ULTIMATE bonding experience. Turn the back sit into a memorable one. Find something to Laugh about till your BLUE in the face and your HEARTS gives out. LOL.
- Choose the topics you're going to share with your Kinfolk WISELY. If you know that they dislike: game shows, don't start replaying last nights episode of JEOPARDY at the dinner table.
When you and your siblings get together, don't FORGET this...
MATTHEW 18:20
FOR WHERE TWO OR THREE ARE GATHERED IN MY NAME, THERE AM I AMONG THEM.
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