Wednesday, June 17, 2009

You don't have to "BE SUPER PARENTS"; Just "BE" There!

  • A few quick questions for "All" the parents that are reading this Blog:

  • Do you Communicate with your Teens on a regular bases?
  • Have you Hugged or Kissed your son or daughter today?
  • Do you know what are their Interests?
  • Are they at the Dating Age? If so, do you know who their: Dating, Going to the movies, or just sharing a Happy Meal at McDonald's?
  • Does the family have a least DINNER together?
If your score to this Mini Quiz is 2 yes out of a total of 5 questions; then your on the Boarder of losing ALL contact with your: pre teen, teen. or young adult. This may sound Hard to Swallow, but it's the truth.
Statics show the following:
  1. Most Gangs are formed because both parents work. Don't take it the wrong way; due to the Recession and prizes Sky Rocketing, one income usually isn't enough.
  2. Unplanned PREGNANCIES are a result of parents not discussing the consequences of Being sexually active before your: Mentally, Financially, and Emotionally ready. On occasions young girls want or Desire a baby because they: Need, Want, or Think that this Unborn child will give them UNCONDITIONAL LOVE and useful. We as parents must: Teach, Guide, and Assist in BUILDING our kids SELF ESTEEM; before someone "Knocks it Down." Have you forgotten what it felt like to feel or be Bullied?
  3. Finally, we can't or shouldn't forget about PEER PRESSURE. Bullies come in ALL different kinds of: Shapes, Sizes, and so called boyfriends, classmates, and just plan students who just Hang Out on school grounds.

The word of the Lord says this:

PROVERBS 22:6

TRAIN YOUR CHILD IN THE WAY HE/SHE SHOULD GO, AND WHEN THEY ARE OLD THEY WILL NOT DEPART FROM IT.

What the word of the Lord is telling us as PARENTS is to take time out of BUSY SCHEDULES and just get to know our BABIES. In conclusion, don't wait till your: Off Springs, PreTeens, Teens, or as my husband, Carlos and I call our sons(4 Diamonds because their so Valuable to us) to MOVE OUT before you get to know them.

REMEMBER THIS:

YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE "SUPER PARENTS", YOU JUST HAVE TO BE A PARENT!!!

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